Learning to be a father and husband is a real struggle.  Trying to figure yourself out while you are trying to figure out the women you love is a real confusing time. My wife and I got together in our early twenties.  At that point in time the only thing I knew about relationships was the vision my parents had provided me.  You eventually learn that what you see from the sample your parents give you is not the whole picture.  Growing up when dad spoke, we all listened.  Dad was the man of the house and if he said it wasn’t happening, it wasn’t happening.   When he said something…