Before I became a Military Spouse (Navy wife), I didn’t know, understand, nor care about anything dealing with our military.  I respected and supported the sailors, soldiers, airmen, marines and coast guards, but their lives were not in the forefront of my life.  And oh, I REALLY DIDN’T get the spouse.  Because I mean, she is sitting at home chilling with her family and friends while her significant other is deployed to the middle of the ocean, flying overhead or out in the field.  And what the heck does deployed mean anyway? Yes, I was that nonmilitary spouse (although, as I type this I realize I wasn’t a spouse of…