How Long Should Parents Stay After College Move-In Day?

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Ah, the bittersweet chaos of college move-in day. It’s a whirlwind of boxes, emotions, and the inevitable awkward encounter with the roommate’s parents. So, how long should we linger before getting the boot? Allow me, Sybil, your friendly yet brutally honest mom-of-two college daughters, to share my experience and sprinkle some wisdom (and a little snark) on this rite of passage.

The First Time Around: Daughter #1

With my eldest daughter, I was eager to help her settle in. I envisioned bonding over room decor, sharing heartfelt advice, and perhaps a tearful goodbye. But reality check—my daughter had other plans.

“Nope, Mom. You Gotta Go.”

Yes, those were her exact words. Talk about a dagger to the heart. I mean, how could she dismiss me so quickly? I’d barely started organizing her closet!

Embracing the Change: Daughter #2

Fast forward to daughter #2’s move-in day, and I’ve embraced a new strategy: vacate the premises immediately. This time, I’m accepting my fate with grace and a touch of sarcasm.

The Swift Exit Plan

You see, after a few hours of lugging boxes and setting up essentials, it’s time for us parents to make a swift exit. Let your child connect with their roommate, meet new friends, and start their college journey. Trust me, they need this space, and so do you.

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Staying Connected Without Hovering

Now, I know what you’re thinking. How will they survive without my constant guidance? Fear not, fellow moms. They’ll manage just fine, and you’ll quickly realize that frequent phone calls, FaceTime sessions, and a barrage of text messages will keep you connected.

Mom’s Communication Plan

Daughter #2 knows to expect my calls as soon as I land back in Bahrain. Yes, I’ll be at the airport, probably shedding a tear or two, but also excited about this new phase for both of us.

Letting Them Spread Their Wings

So, to all the moms out there: let your child spread their wings. Go home, relax, and embrace your new role. It’s time for us to shift from daily supervisors to supportive cheerleaders. They will thrive, and guess what? So will we.

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Until next time, stay FABulous and keep embracing your new role!

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